I want to be a fighter but my dad says I don't have it to be one?





When you're 16, you can try absolutely anything, without regards for whether or not you have a talent for it. Hell, I'm 21 and I'm still trying out new things that I will probably suck at. Wasting time is vital when growing up; if you only do stuff with a purpose, you'll never experience things you didn't plan for.
But fighting. Okay, fighting. Fighting is awesome. I'm a little size small girly girl. I take Brazilian jiu jitsu classes, and I used to take karate classes. Here I am in my bjj gi:
Here I am with my team:
Can you spot me? Here's a hint: I'm the only one in a pink gi. In case you can't tell, everyone else is wearing a blue, white, or black gi. I'm also the only female. I'm also the only one who hop skips rather than walk. And I'm the only one who brings her gi in a mulberry bag.
My point is that I'm not the typical bjj practicing person. I work in the fashion industry, complain about my bruises, and I wear makeup to class (it's sweated off by the end). But I love it. I absolutely love bjj. And isn't that the point? And, am I good at it? Well…
Jim and I practice a drill. Jim is a blue belt and I'm a white belt. He always goes ‘nice’ when I've done a drill right.
I escape his choke and blocks him. He nods.
Me: no nice this time?
Jim: well now that you're doing it right every time, I don't have to keep complimenting you
Me: yes you do.
So, despite just being on my second month of it, I think I'm doing fairly well. So maybe you can't judge a fighter on the colour of their gi, or maybe bjj was just made to give the weak ones a chance too.

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